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When did you first show signs of dominance
being "second nature" to you?
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I must
have been about 12 or 13 years old, living in Los Angeles; I was
the only girl on the block with about 8 other boys on my street.
On weekends and during the summer, we would play in each other's
yards. Being the only girl I was usually treated like a princess,
but once they got out of what I consider proper behavior, I would
pin them down, torment, and tease them until they did as they were
told.
The next
was when I was about 15 or 16 years old. While on a date, the boy
I was with said something I didn't like. I proceeded to take the
belt from "his" pants and buckle him to a tree where I preceded
to lets say…correct the situation. I did the same as I did when
I was 12 or 13; I tormented him until he apologized for what he
had said. I didn't have to think about what I was doing, I just
did it. He asked me out again and I agreed. He would do things purposely
knowing I wouldn't stand for it, hoping to get "corrected". I guess
those were my first signs of a good girl gone bad. Once I became
older and learned more about BDSM, I guess that is when the bad
girl turned twisted, according to society.
That
is why I enjoy the BDSM lifestyle so much. No ones interests are
really right or wrong (based on their desires). Everyone has fantasies
and needs. One just needs to be brave enough to venture out and
fulfill them. I'm not one to judge others, so I keep and open mind
and don't limit myself or my sessions to just certain parts of D/s.
I'm interested in and enjoy most aspects. I do not do any brown,
red or roman showers.
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What are a few things you include
in a scene?
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There
are a few things I consider extremely important. The submissive's
safety is first and for most, but hand-in-hand with safety, activities
need to be consensual. That doesn't mean limits aren't pushed -
for no one wants to stay at one level. I try to maintain of certain
level integrity. I have very high standards for myself and everything
I do, which include my sessions. I give the very best of myself.
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I understand that you interview each
potential submissive/client before granting them a session. What is
the purpose?
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When
the client calls initially, I get basic information and some of
their interests. The main reason for the interview is to get a more
detailed idea of their interests and to try and understand them
better, see where they are coming from so that I can give them the
best, the most enjoyable session they could receive. The novice
requires one level where as the experienced requires another. Plus,
you can "see" if they are being honest and sincere. Two qualities
that are important in a submissive/client.
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Are your sessions ever scripted?
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NO! I
review the client's questionnaire, note their desired role-play
or scenario, and then add to it. I mix their fantasies, some of
my own, and incorporate something's they may not know exist. I add
a lot of my own ideas. I have been told they are rather unique.
As you know, a good D/s fantasy is a terrible thing to waste.
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Is there any certain scene or scenario
you prefer over another?
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I truly
enjoy all of them, from the novice to the extreme, from the foot
slave to the heaviest of corporal. Since I do enjoy such a wide
range, I've made sure my dungeon is very well equipped. I savor
in all different forms of bondage done with all kind of materials.
As well as sensory deprivation, suspension, the complete spectrum
of discipline-light floggers to a various collection of single tail
whips. I like coming up with new and unusual ways of performing
cock and ball torture, nipple play, temporary piercing and mummification.
I have put much thought into my wardrobe….the visual aspect plays
such a large part of a scene. I love my Leather, Latex, and corsets,
done in all fabrics. I truly enjoy the footwear, all of them. Heels,
mules, stilettos, and boots whether they are calf height or crotch
height….I love them all.
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I have heard that with your dungeon
being so well equipped, you are sometimes requested by visiting Dominas
to use it?
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Oh Absolutely.
The most recent being Mistress
Ilsa Strix of Los Angeles & Mistress
Sabrina Belladonna of Los Angeles. Check out my Live
Appearances & Events page to see who is coming and to see where
I will be next.
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Everything pertaining to the scene
has been kept underground for so long. Do you see a change in this
and what do you see in the future for the scene?
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I don't
feel the scene is looked down upon as much as it used to be. If
you look around, you see fetish wear being worn in public, on MTV,
on band members and famous singers….even on teenagers. More and
more I see people taking their sexuality into their own hands. (no
pun intended) People are realizing that others have desires and
fantasies, they aren't alone. Just because one likes to get spanked
or kiss feet - that doesn't make them a bad person. Yes, there are
still a lot of closed minded people that feel they can judge or
look down upon others. But they just aren't being honest with themselves.
I do feel the scene is up and coming. (again….no pun)
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Do you do any other training besides
"live" sessions?
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Unfortunately
at this time I do not offer anything other than Live sessions. Physical,
one-on-one sessions are the best. There is a wonderful, powerful
feeling having a slave kneeling or groveling at your feet. To see
the expressions on their faces, that submissive sparkle in their
eyes, yes, this is a great thing.
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Is there any one thing that makes
you really angry about the scene?
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YES!
It's the "false impression" some give, that because they dress sexy
and own a whip or paddle, that they are a Domina and think they
know what they are doing. You know, what I call "hookers with whips".
It enrages me for it not only endangers the submissive, but it also
gives the "REAL" Dominas a bad name. It also gives the submissive
a misconception of what BDSM is all about. This is one of the things
that holds this lifestyle from being more accepted. Also there is
the message parlors that "offer domination". PLEASE!!!!
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So you truly enjoy your lifestyle?
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What's
not to enjoy? Not only are you providing a great service, but educating
people by helping people explore their inner self, it enables them
to understand themselves better. Through this understanding, they
are more capable to deal with other aspects of their lives. Yes,
know that I have helped people through self expression, how can
I not enjoy that!?!
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